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summer flora and fauna

I love how lush North Carolina gets in the summer, and here are some growing things that have caused me to stop and take a picture. First, I took a wrong turn into a road behind a shopping center near my house, and found this field. At the time it was filled with little yellow flowers, but by the time I came back with my camera, they had been washed away by a summer storm.

Next, as I was driving to visit some friends in Pittsboro, I saw a pond full of water lilies/lotuses. I love how they arranged themselves over the surface of the water.

I also have a thing for blue hydrangeas, especially when you find a big bush with a variety of shades. My favorites are the deepest lavender blues.

I've been searching for a great mimosa tree that is really pink and fluffy, and found the perfect one in my neighborhood.



After arriving home from being out and about on Sunday, I looked at our neighbor's yard across the street at what first appeared to be turkeys, but were in fact vultures, feeding on some roadkill in the street. These pictures do not do justice to their size, but they were skittish when I tried to get close.



Pretty ominous looking, but they were very helpful in disposing of the unsightly roadkill.

baby update

This was a big week in the life of the fetus. He turned 6 months, or more accurately, negative 3.5 months. We had a checkup, and he is fine. He did a lot of acrobatics in preparation for his circus career. We have also done a lot of preparation for his arrival. We hired our doulas, Teresa and Gail and began our 12 week Bradley Method birth class with Carol, who is also part of the Triangle Birth Network. We are really hoping to have a minimal intervention, drug-free natural birth, barring mal-positioning, pre-eclampsia or gestational diabetes. Considering that 99% of American woman have epidurals, this is not standard hospital procedure. We ideally wanted a home birth, but that proved to be to expensive (short version). The doulas and natural childbirth classes will help us to try to have the closest thing to home birth in the hospital. Good thing we live 3 minutes from the hospital and can hold off hon going until the last minute.


We also bought him a crib on Craigslist. It's pretty simple, but it converts into a toddler bed, full bed and love seat. We can't wait for his crib bedding to arrive to see how it looks together.

In Utero Playlists

I'm afraid it's going to happen. I'm going to be "one of those" parents that really pushes their kids to achieve, where "achieve" often is code for "fulfill one or more of the parent's own unrealized dreams." In my case, I'll be pushing my kid(s) to be the next David Bowie(s) or Johnny Cash(es).

Just the other day it really started to hit me hard that there was once a time that I really coveted the creative elements of my life - I wanted them to overtake every other aspect of my life, in fact. But now, my creative outlets have shifted so hard (towards potentially inconsequential things like blogging) or have completely evaporated from my daily routine (like no longer playing my guitar for hours at a time), that I can't help but wonder, "What if...?"

Luckily, one of my responses to these thoughts has been somewhat rational: attempting to integrate creativity back into my life. My life's not over, damn it! So, lately I've started taking more photographs. I've pulled the guitar back out of the closet. I've been sifting through old sketch books and drawings.

But, I guess the other response has been a little irrational - the whole imposing my David Bowie dreams on my soon-to-born son. I can't predict what he'll find interesting. But you know what? I also can't help but think about how much of a "perfect storm" his environment will be for fostering rockstardom.

His paternal grandmother is a music teacher. She passed a lot of this talent to me. His paternal grandfather is an art teacher, an artist too (if that's something different). He passed a lot of this artistic talent to me. He's got other musicians and artistic folks on this paternal side, too. His maternal grandmother is a great artist. She has passed on a lot of her talent to Kate. I also understand there are other artists on the maternal side.

He'll be growing up in a town with a strong musical heritage and a well-supported musical culture. Kate tells me that pretty much everyone growing up in Chapel Hill was in a band at some point in high school, or even earlier. He'll be growing up in our household, with our sensibilities and appreciation for self-expression and love of music and art.

If this kid doesn't grow up to be a rock star, then rock must be dead.

I can see it now. Jonas will be like 6 years old and I'll be saying, "You need to finish writing that concept album or you won't get any dessert." or maybe, "No doing chores until you've done your mixolydian arpeggios!"

Of course, I'm really joking. I'm not going to pressure my kid into doing something he doesn't want to do. I mean, maybe he'd rather be the next Morrissey - I'd be crushed, but I could probably live with that.

For the sake of sharing, here are some of the songs I've made Kate's stomach listen to recently (I'm sticking with a lot of "The Classics" for now, I'll branch out later):

Lou Reed - Walk on the Wild Side
Hank Williams - Jambalaya
Mott the Hoople - All the Young Dudes
The Beatles - Across the Universe
Johnny and June - If I Were A Carpenter
T. Rex - Mambo Sun
Old Crow Medicine Show - Wagon Wheel
Neil Young - Heart of Gold
David Bowie - Heroes
Prince - Little Red Corvette (sorry no link - Prince and Copyright have issues)
Television - Guiding Light
Flaming Lips - Yoshimi Battles the Pink Robot
The Rolling Stones - Angie
Roxy Music - More than This
Al Green - Take Me to the River

Baby curtains 2.0


Apparently, the fabric I originally chose was a heavy canvas not suitable for curtains, but I'm really happy with what I found instead at Tonic Living. It also sort of goes with this crib set that I found on an Odeedoh nursery tour page. I am embarrassed to say it comes from Walmart, which is so against our values, but it was also only $39 for the whole set....

Montreal trip Day 4 Sunday June 15th






On our final day in Montreal, we went to see the Yves St. Laurent Love exhibit at the Montreal Museum of Fine Arts. I'm not a big fan of luxury culture in general, but as art objects they are lovely. My favorites were the Matisse and Braque (pink below) inspired dresses here.


















My mom did a great sketch of one of the Matisse dresses here, as well as some fountains.

I heard that YSL's memorial service was held at his property in Marrakesh and the adjacent Jardin Majorelle. I was able to visit there in 2001, and have some old pictures that I (okay Biff) scanned. Although it is an amazing place, my recommendation is to visit Morocco a time other than August.




















I really enjoyed Montreal (and Morocco) and would love to go back, although all travel plans are on hold for the next few years.

Montreal trip Day 3 Saturday June 14th

Saturday I dragged my mom all the way to a suburban mall to go to H&M baby, which was well worth it, in my opinion! We got many outfits of stripes, woodland and safari creatures. We then had lunch at the Jardin Nelson, which has a large open air patio. My pesto/mango/olive/avocado salad was delicious.


In the afternoon we went on a sightseeing cruise on the Bateau Mouche.

We passed Habitat 67 a housing complex created from cubes for Expo 67.


Check out the 4 huge penthouses on top of this luxury building.



Finally, we ended the day with a meal at Le Nil Bleu, which was nice, although I think my favorite Ethiopian is Zed's in Washington DC. Not that I don't love Abyssinia in Raleigh. I keep hoping to make it to Ethiopia, where I hear the injera is much more sour and the spices spicier.

Montreal trip Day 2 Friday June 13th

Friday we went to the Jardin botanique de Montreal, which is the biggest botanical garden in North America. The Chinese garden, called the Dream Lake Garden, modeled after a Ming dynasty garden, was like a fairyland. I would highly recommend this for anyone going to Montreal.


They also have an insectarium, which was pretty neat. My favorite was the mini-exhibit on beetle jewelry from Peru.
On the way there I saw this hilarious flyer. It says: Missing fish. I have lost my fish. I need him. He is fragile. Help me find him. If you find him, please call me or email me at whereismyfish@gmail.com. Maybe he should check the percolator ....
For dinner, we went to a restaurant my mom had found in the guidebook called Chez L'Epicier in an old grocery store. It was probably the best meal I've ever eaten. It started out with a tiny skinned tomato with rock salt with a dropper of vinaigrette that you had to squeeze out while you ate the tomato. I then had a potato and mozzarella molleux and the cutest dessert ever, a chocolate club sandwich with pineapple fries and melon-mint coleslaw.

Montreal trip Day 1 Thursday June 12th













































My mom and I took a mini-vacation to Montreal so that we could spend some time together before I got too big to travel and before being too busy with the baby. I had never been before, but it is a lovely, adorable, laid back city full of window boxes, cafes and pretty architecture.



We arrived on Thursday afternoon, and
went straight to the Hotel Nelligan in Old Montreal, which had many sweet details, such as the faucets and edible displays of delicious green apples. The sweet and helpful concierge recommended lunch at Olive & Gourmando, a small and quirky cafe down the street. I had a really unusual but incredible sandwich of hummus, tofu, pickles and olives and the requisite chocolat chaud. Walking around the city, I loved these birch branches and a display of jewelry templates :




















The highlight, however, which I had been looking forward to since we had begun researching the trip was the internationally renown circus school, called La Tohu 's annual student performance (Spectacle annuel de l'école national de cirque). I LOVE the circus (well, human circus) and French Canadian circus is very famous (Cirque du Soleil obv, but also the incredible Cirque Éloize). We hadn't gotten tickets in advance, and all the shows were sold out, but the concierge came to our rescue and got us tickets, which turned out to be the best seats. The show was incredible, and they don't have videos up from this year's spectacle but here is a small montage from 2007.

It doesn't even begin to capture the beauty of seeing it live, but you can get an idea.

My mom and I had actually seen Cirque Eloize's spectacular (literally) show Rain last winter at Memorial Hall and were mesmerized. For videos and dates go this link. It turns out that the founders had all trained at Tohu, and one of my favorite acts, the Cyr wheel was created by a member of the troupe!

baby curtains

We had already painted the walls a gender-neutral robin's egg blue in the baby's room and I was searching for a nice cream/gold patterned curtain to go on the three windows. I found a few good ones at anthropologie, but they are like a million dollars per panel. So I decided custom would be cooler, and cheaper, as it turns out. I found this material at reprodepot.com, which is a great source for cool fabric. I also love the echino leopard. More pics to come when the curtains take shape.

onesies!



I went to the Red Hen a cute baby/maternity consignment store in Carrboro for the first time on Saturday and here were some of the cute clothes I walked out with. If you look at the site, check out the Baby Legs-too cute!

P.S. Translation of onesie=I am a boy.

June 6th-8th, Kate's 27 birthday weekend




I had a great birthday weekend, starting with dinner at my favorite Ethiopian restaurant, Abyssinia, in Raleigh. Saturday night we had a potluck for friends at our house, but unfortunately did not get enough pictures of the always handsome Michael Feezor and his new old car. Who buys a car from the 70's when gas is over $4.00 a gallon? But it's pretty... Then Sunday we had a family dinner at my parents' house with the same cake I've had every year that I love. Sungold tomatoes are in season and that makes me happy.

My parents got me the Orly Kiely bag I had been wanting since my mom got hers (yes I copied my mom). We looked around, but the local stores were out, so I ordered online. Sorry, local businesses, we tried.




Biff gave me two books, the new Lynda Barry, called What It Is. She is one of my favorites since I first saw Marlys. He also got me Let's Make Cute Stuff which is very inspiring.

Other exciting gifts were Locopops gift certificates and an awesome CD Angola 70's Volume 1:


More wonderful gifts from friends and family in the montage.

cool things from Europe that start with Sigg


siggi's is a delicious, thick yogurt that has 16grams of protein per serving (very important for a preggo), little fat and is sweetened with agave syrup, so is not super sweet, which I like. I regularly eat the orange/ginger or pomegranate/passionfruit for breakfast. I've heard there is a pear/mint combo, but I haven't spotted it here. It's actually made in NY, but it's Icelandic style, so I will consider it European.





SIGG Switzerland makes these handy metal water bottles, along with other types of beverage containers. They have lots of cute patterns, my personal one is on the left. It's easy to clean, and helps to have on hand to make sure you drink enough water (also important for a preggo).

irresistible crib sheet

I found these brown and white (organic cotton) safari print crib sheets on Baby Gap, and I had to order them. I've basically stayed away from too many baby purchases this early on so that I have more to look forward to as my comfort wanes. We also have a lot of great hand me downs and more on the way, but this was too cute to pass up.

Asheville Anniversary trip



We wanted to take a trip to celebrate our one-year wedding anniversary, and since we had gotten engaged in Asheville, (after what felt like a death-defying mountain climb to the top of Chimney Rock, but is actually a very family-friendly hike) in October of 2006, we decided to go back there. Seeing it in late May officially confirmed for me that I am in the mountains camp in the mountains vs. beach debate. Growing up I went to the Great Lakes well before I ever saw the NC beaches, and I love evergreens, moss and wildflowers. The smells at the lookout points on the Blue Ridge Parkway on the drive to Grandfather Mountain were incredible.

On the way, we stopped at one of our favorite restaurants, Boba House, in Greensboro and had a nice lunch of Asian vegetarian stir-fries. Every time we go we wish they would open a branch in Durham. That and Soul Vegetarian.

That night we ate at a restaurant that had both fondue and vegetarian thali. Kate's culinary heaven, in other words.
We then wandered around the streets of Asheville on a Friday night for hours. And literally EVERYTHING in this huge radius of downtown city blocks was a local business, well barring the one Subway. I had heard so much about Malaprops Bookstore; it's kind of a legend in independent bookstore world, but I had never gotten to go before. It was everything I had heard and more! One thing we noticed was that so many stores had really incredible window displays. We got pictures of this elaborate Alice in Wonderland scene from a headshop, but not the beautiful dyed ballet shoes from the dance store.

On Saturday we went canoing on the French Broad, and I dipped our camera in the water trying to wash of any potential poison ivy from peeing in the woods (yes I had to make multiple stops on the 2.5 hour trip, el niño's favorite resting place is on my bladder...) [N.B. if you ever get your camera wet DO NOT try to operate it until it has dried out for a week or so with memory card and battery removed. End result, we made an unplanned detour to Best Buy. Memory card was salvaged, thank goodness. ]
The trip was really easy and beautiful, and we floated past many geese families and the Biltmore Estate. In the afternoon we ate veggie dogs, fried green tomatoes, veggie chili cheese fries and fried okra and then headed to the Asheville Art Museum to see Time is of the Essence: Contemporary Landscape Art. It was very well put together, and really interesting. I think Biff and I both like the Maya Lin and Richard Misrach pieces the best. The permanent collection is definitely skipable.

On Sunday we drove to Grandfather Mountain, part of our quest for visiting as many of North Carolina's tourist and/or historical sites as we can. It was seriously gorgeous. There were red/purple rhododendrons in bloom all over. We hiked to the mile-high swinging bridge and then crossed to the rock ledge that overlooks the surrounding mountains. The name Blue Ridge really becomes clear at the point, and if you have any fear of heights, that kicks in too! After that we went to the nature center and animal habitats and saw bears, deer and an otter. Unfortunately the panthers were in transition to a new enclosure and we didn't get to see them.

It turned out to be a wonderful trip, and we can't wait to return with el niño and whatever siblings he may have. I think I should also point out the overly food-oriented nature of this particular post-can you tell that someone is in their second trimester? Time to go eat a leftover Kelley G cupcake.